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You’ll see it in the movies – children with tears streaming down their faces as they bid farewell to their  beloved goldfish as Mom proceeds to flush Goldie down the toilet. Or you may see an adult tormented by the decision of whether they should dispose of the addicting medicine that offers them pain relief, ultimately pouring a bottle of pills down the toilet.

Even in real life, and in our own homes, we’ll often find ourselves wondering whether we should be disposing of things down the drain. In my own home when my boys were little, they almost caused a minor flood in the bathroom by emptying a box of tissues into the toilet!

There are certain things which should never be flushed down the toilet. As part of World Toilet Day, York Region is reminding residents of the important role we all play when it comes to protecting our environment and our waterways.

Flushing items that don’t belong down our toilets and drains can lead to backups in our homes, problems at our wastewater treatment facilities and can even cause sewage to overflow into our lakes and rivers.

Here are the items that should never be flushed down the toilet:

  • Baby or facial wipes
  • Sanitary products
  • Dental loss
  • Cotton swabs
  • Facial tissue
  • Medications
  • Fats, oils and grease

It is important to remember toilets are not garbage cans. Flushable wipes and personal care products should be put into the garbage, while sanitary products can be put into the green bin.

There are only three things that can be flushed – number “1”, number “2” and toilet paper.

Wastewater is produced every time we take a shower, do laundry or flush the toilet. This water is collected in sewers and treated at wastewater plants to remove contaminants before being returned to the environment. Highly trained York Region staff operate and monitor these systems all day, every day, performing thousands of tests to make sure our water is safely returned to the lake. York Region remains committed to protecting our water sources and infrastructure for having clean, safe affordable water for our growing communities.

So when nature calls, let’s be kind to our toilets and the pipes used to carry away our waste and put these other items where they belong – not down our drains.

We all have a role to play in protecting our waterways. Make sure to tell your children too, and show them this video to remind them what they can and can’t flush!

For more information about the dos and don’ts of what to flush, visit york.ca/idontflush.

You know you’re a mom when you get excited about a vacuum! I’ve always been curious about cord-free vacuums because I’ve heard how they are lightweight and easy to manoeuver. But at the same time, I’ve always worried whether or not the performance would be what I needed to tackle messes in my home.

So I was so thrilled when Dyson approached me to try the machine with the most powerful suction out of any cord-free vacuum – the Dyson Cyclone V10 Absolute. It’s safe to say that the best cord-free vacuum is the powerful Dyson Cyclone V10. Here’s why:

Easy to use

The Dyson Cyclone V10 is so easy to assemble and use. Within a few minutes of assembly (not including the power charge), I was ready to go. The Absolute model comes with both hard floor and carpet attachments, so I tackled the hard floors first.

The machine is so easy to move around because you don’t have to worry about a cord, or trying to find an electrical outlet to plug the vacuum in.

Lightweight

The Dyson Cyclone V10 has a slim design and light handling, so you can easily clean without having to pull a heavy base, or lift up the stairs.

Convenient

Dyson Cyclone V10 Absolute also comes with a wall mount, so you can easily find a spot to hang up and keep charged for use.  This makes the Dyson Cyclone V10 especially ideal for quick clean-up jobs – such as when the kids have spilled crumbs on the kitchen floor, or drudged in dirt from outside onto the hall carpet.

What’s more, you can remove the long wand and use the small brush attachment to clean under the couches, tackle the stairs, or even bring the machine out to your car (which is ideal when you have kiddies on the go).

Cord-Free Vacuum - Dyson Cyclone V10

Effective

The Dyson Cyclone V10 is even effective at cleaning up along edges and on hard floors. It left the kitchen floors and hardwood floors clean and I loved using the machine with the soft roller cleaner head in place of my typical broom and dustpan situation.

On the carpets, the machine even was able to suck up the debris that weren’t visible to the naked eye! It did however push some larger debris, but it was easy to pick up and place back down over the crumb to suck it up.

There are also three power modes to choose from, to suit any task on any floor type.

Maintenance

The Dyson Cyclone V10 has a good-sized dustbin, which means fewer trips to the trash can. It’s also easy to clean; pop off the dustbin, and empty. As a note, the instructions do recommend cleaning the dustbin and filter once a month for maintenance.

Battery

The Dyson Cyclone V10 can run on low power for about an hour per charge. At the max power setting,  it runs for about 15 minutes. However I did find that max wasn’t needed – the standard setting worked just fine for daily chores. I was surprised at how often I reached for the machine for the daily chores. And while you think you may need a longer run time, I really only used it for several minutes at a time.

Cord-Free Vacuum - Dyson Cyclone V10

Features

  • Torque drive cleaner head is Dyson’s most powerful cleaner head yet, removing 25% more dust than the V8 cord-free stick vacuum
  • Transforms to a handheld to clean your car, sofa, stairs and to clean up high
  • Up to 60 minutes of fade-free power
  • Whole machine HEPA filtration captures 99.97% of particles as small as 0.3 microns
  • Point and shoot hygienic dirt ejector hygienically drives out dust and debris – shooting it in the bin, not the floor
  • Sucks up large debris and fine dust from hard floors
  • Soft roller cleaner head is engineered with soft woven nylon and anti-static carbon fibre for hard floors
  • Convenient docking station

 

The Dyson Cyclone V10 is a bit of an investment for sure, but you know you’re getting top quality. Plus, Dyson’s warranty can ease any concerns for longevity; it has a two year warranty for parts and labour including service and parts (free shipping too), and support from Dyson Experts!  For the price, you have a two year guarantee that if a problem does arise, you’re covered. Now that’s a smart investment!

To check out the Dyson Cyclone V10 Absolute for yourself, head on over to dysoncanada.ca.

 

Cord-Free Vacuum - Dyson Cyclone V10

 

Cord-Free Vacuum - Dyson Cyclone V10

Guest post ~ Written by Francesca Bonta

From the moment you open your eyes in the morning, or someone else opens them for you, you’ve got a hundred things to do. Make breakfast, make and pack lunches, get dressed, get your kids dressed, drop your kids off at school, go to work, work, go to soccer or ballet practice, cook dinner, help your kids with homework, do the dishes, do laundry, put your kids to bed and then finish that work project for the next day before you finally get to go to bed. Your days are hectic but somehow you manage to get it all done. But can you remember the last time you did something just for you, without any distractions or interruptions?

Making uninterrupted time for yourself is key not only to ensuring your health and wellness, but also to making you a good mom. Doing things for yourself, as greedy as it may sound, keeps you from burning out so that you can help your children flourish, and practicing yoga is a healthy and cost effective way to do it.

While doing yoga at home is an excellent way to maintain balance and ensure your continued mental and physical health, going to a yoga studio for even one hour a week is even more beneficial. Here are five reasons why moms should join a yoga studio.

5 Reasons Why Moms Should Join a Yoga Studio

Uninterrupted Me Time

Sometimes, even when you think you can get an hour to yourself at home, something or someone will distract you and your one hour of yoga turns into 15 minutes or no time at all. Coming to the studio guarantees 60 minutes of time just for you in a calm and peaceful environment. No one will call your name, ask for help or disrupt your focus on you.

Get Out of the House

Going from home to work and then home again can become monotonous and even make you feel stir crazy. Driving kids to different events can offer a bit of change, but quite often you end up feeling like just a driver. Taking some time for yourself to visit a yoga studio gets you into a new environment filled with positive and like-minded people who you can speak with before and after class.

Adult Conversations/New Friends

If you are a new mom, you may spend your days at home with your baby. Being at home with your child is exciting as you watch them grow and change, but spending time with other adults is also extremely important for your overall health and wellness. Regular visits to a yoga studio are a healthy and inexpensive opportunity to spend time with other adults and develop new friendships.

5 Reasons Why Moms Should Join a Yoga Studio | amotherworld

Enhance Your Practice

Having the personal support of a Registered Yoga Teacher (RYT) means having someone is take care of you. At the beginning of each class instructors will often ask if there is an area of the body you would like to focus on, and will tailor the class to ensure you receive the custom support you need. They are also there to modify poses which may not work for you, without jeopardizing your practice and goals.

When you are ready to advance your practice, in-studio instructors will be there to encourage and support you as you rise to the challenge while ensuring you do not get hurt.

Maintain Your Identity

Being a mom is one of life’s most amazing gifts. However, it is also quite often only one aspect of who you are. Continuing to visit a yoga studio not only gives you an hour of “me time” it also allows you to maintain another part of your life that brings you joy. For older children, seeing mom go out and take part in a healthy activity helps to foster the development of positive habits and serves as a reminder that parents are people who enjoy different activities.

Yoga is a healthy and natural way to build strength, relieve stress and tension and increase your overall health. The more yoga you do the better, and making time for yourself to visit a yoga studio further enhances your practice and supports a stronger, healthier and happier you.

Francesca Bonta Karma Lifestyle Yoga

Interested in coming to our studio? Register for a class today. If you don’t see a class that works with your schedule, we would also be thrilled to help you host a customized “ladies night” for you and your friends. To learn more contact Karma Lifestyle Owner and fellow mom, of triplets to boot, Francesca Bonta at francesa@karmalifestyle.com

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Teenagers get a bad rap during Halloween. Perhaps other children and adults are frightened by seeing a large group of teens walking the streets. Perhaps they don’t dress, and take more candy than they are supposed to? Maybe they ring doorbells too late, or aren’t polite?

But when cities begin banning trick-or-treating after certain ages, with some even making it a misdemeanor for teenagers to trick or treat, it seems a little ridiculous.

In one Virginia town, teenagers who go trick-or-treating could wind up landing in jail. Anyone 13 and older who goes door-to-door asking for candy in Chesapeake could face up to six months in jail! If they try, they’re liable to get slapped with a misdemeanor.

“If any person over the age of 12 years shall engage in the activity commonly known as ‘trick or treat’ or any other activity of similar character or nature under any name whatsoever, he or she shall be guilty of a misdemeanor and shall be punished by a fine of not less than $25.00 nor more than $100.00 or by confinement in jail for not more than six months or both.”

And not just in Chesapeake; eight other Virginia towns have made it illegal to trick-or-treat if you’re over 12.

There are also a handful of cities across the country who’ve also made the age limit 12 for those who can travel door-to-door for candy.

The good news is, while teen violators could face jail or fines up to $100, such laws are rarely strictly enforced. Police officers are prowling the streets looking for kids who appear older than 12; they’re more concerned about making trouble in the neighborhood, like egging houses and smashing pumpkins.

My son is a teen himself, and he still would like to go out trick-or-treating this year. I don’t see why he can’t – if he’s still having fun doing so, he should be able to take part. He’s 14 – which is my books, he’s still a child – and likely it’ll be the last year he’ll go. Yes, my teen will trick or treat!

If a teenager comes to our home in a costume, at a reasonable hour, and is respectful and polite, of course I will give them candy. Allowing teens to have old-fashioned childish fun for a few extra years by trick-or-treating is a non-issue. Also, I’d rather have teens trick-or-treating instead of out causing trouble or playing Halloween pranks.

When you become a new mom, you’ll want to lean on your friends now more than ever before. If you’re the first in your group to have a baby, you’ll want to meet some other moms like you—stat.

Oh no—memories of high school are flooding back! The jocks, the geeks, the popular group, the rockers, the punks . . . and now those are replaced with the granola moms, the baby-wearing moms, the helicopter moms, the tiger moms, the fashionistas.

These are labels we’ve created ourselves, as much as I dislike them. But the reality is that you will identify yourself with one of these groups more than others. You’ll be drawn to certain women because they have similar values, ideas, and thoughts.

Meeting new mom friends is a little like dating. We’re scared to make the first move. Say the wrong thing, and you’ll scare off a potential friend. Keep your cool so they think you’re someone fun to hang around with. And then the hardest part. . . asking for their phone number.

The Park

If you’re solo, the park is a great way to meet some new mom friends. At first, you may feel awkward trying to strike up a conversation. My first thought was, “well, these women probably already have a group of friends—they’re not looking for more.” The truth is, many of these other new moms are feeling just like you— looking for another adult to have a full adult conversation with. Baby talk can be fulfilling but let’s be honest, we need some grown-up stimulation too.

Mom-Baby Class

Join a mom-and-baby class where you can meet other new mothers. You’ll find comfort in talking to other women who are going through similar stages and challenges. Sharing stories and tips and coming to the realization that you’re not alone is so helpful.

Online Groups

Look online for local mom meetup groups. Similar to dating apps, there are apps to meet new mom friends too. It’s as easy as posting “Hey, I’m a new mom, looking for some new mom friends to go for walks and meet at the park. Message me!” I’ve seen this on an almost weekly basis on a local mom group I run on Facebook, and every time, there are at least a dozen responses from other moms looking for friendship too.

Ok, Now What?

Even if you do meet a bunch of new mom friends, it still can be challenging to find the right one or two. You may gravitate to moms with babies around the same age as yours who will eventually play together. Their naps may need to be around the same time, too, so you can actually coordinate time to meet.

What if you don’t feel like part of a mom club? While many commercials and YouTube videos encourage a unity among all mothers, the real truth is many of us prefer to surround ourselves with like-minded people. If you don’t find yourself fitting in to one particular group, then you may feel excluded. You may find you’re asking yourself, where do I fit in? The answer isn’t always easy.

Find a supportive group of other women who will take you as you are. The last thing you need is a group of judgmental women who will question every parenting choice you make. Friends are meant to uplift and enhance—not barrage and bring down.

I think all new moms are desperate to make friends and need to make a connection with someone who is going through a similar situation. Don’t be shy if you find another mom who you’re drawn to – go for it!

Making New Mom Friends is Like Dating

 

This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Canadian Association of Naturopathic Doctors. All opinions are 100% mine.

If you follow me, you are likely aware that I live a gluten-free lifestyle, and that I promote healthy eating and living well. You may have heard my story about how I healed my gut, take probiotics, practice meditation and yoga. You may have even tried some of my delicious gluten-free recipes!

Since being open about my own journey to a healthy stomach, many of you have also shared your own experiences with gut health, bloating and developing food sensitivities. Here’s a recap!

After my second child was born, I developed major stomach pain and bloating symptoms. As time went on, the digestive issues seemed to worsen. Every time I ate, my stomach would bloat to the point where I looked six months pregnant. It was painful to even touch!

A few years ago, I underwent a series of appointments and medical tests for my stomach issues. First tests checked my iron levels, thyroid, etc. and everything came back fine. I underwent an ultrasound which showed some inflammation but nothing else.

My family doctor then sent me to see a gastro-enterologist who ordered more tests. I also did a food allergy test which showed I may be lactose intolerant and sensitive to wheat. My family doctor and the specialists I met with cleared me of any medical issue, which I was thrilled about. But they also couldn’t give me an explanation or solution to my constant discomfort, or offer any solutions. How was it possible that my doctor couldn’t provide any answers, and relief?

I felt frustrated, and left to figure things out on my own. So I began to do some research. I started a log of foods that would disagree with me, and began a list of foods to avoid – including whole wheat, oats, and dairy. Over time, the list grew longer… it seemed I had an upset stomach after every meal, and every single day.

Then, I realized I should seek out the advice of a Naturopathic Doctor. If my medical doctor couldn’t help much, why wouldn’t I seek out natural alternatives? Naturopathic Doctors are qualified and regulated health care professionals, and their services are covered by extended health insurance.

My Naturopathic Doctor ordered a food sensitivity test which revealed all the foods that were causing inflammation, and many more. The list was longer than I had ever anticipated! The food I was eating was the cause of my stomach pain and bloating. Naturopathic Doctors treat underlying causes, and can help you stay healthy.

My ND said I should avoid the foods that were causing the inflammation, and suggested a plan to heal my stomach. Part of my treatment was to take a probiotic, and herbal supplements geared toward digestive issues. It’s been several years now that I’ve gone gluten and soy free, and I’ve never felt better. I’ll sometimes sneak in some dairy here and there, but avoid it for the most part as I still have reactions.

I’m so thankful to have found a Naturopathic Doctor who was able to help me realize the underlying issues I was having, and to help me on the road to healing and recovery. You can find a Naturopathic Doctor near you at www.FindMyND.ca.

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Today is World Mental Health Day, a day for global mental health education, awareness and
advocacy against social stigma. 

Dear Friends,

Can’t talk right now. I’m sorry I can’t come to the phone right now. I’m having a tough go and am currently out of commission. Please know it’s not that I don’t wish to speak to you or see your lovely face because I do. But I just can’t at the moment because I’m stuck under a dark cloud and I can’t seem to clear the fog.

You see, Depression and Anxiety crept up on me when I woke up this morning. They must have sneaked into my dreams during the night, seeped their darkness deep within me and have taken over. They’ve decided they are lingering today. I’m not sure why they decided to take control now, but they did. I can’t do anything to escape their stronghold and must succumb to their will.

You must understand, it’s not really a choice of mine. Living with Depression and Anxiety means I can’t control when they will decide to come out and “play”… I can’t control when they’re going to grab me in a chokehold until I can’t breathe. It’s like I’m drowning while everyone else is floating above me.

Even though I can manage most of the time, some days, the weight of the world seems too much to bear. While it’s helpful to talk about our feelings, I only want to retreat from the world at this moment.

I don’t want you to think I’m avoiding you, or don’t want to see you.  I don’t have the physical or mental energy to attempt a conversation. I really wanted to chat and laugh together while enjoying a cup of coffee, and you could tell me all about work, the kids and your last vacation.

Please forgive me if I bail on you, or don’t pick up the phone when you call or take too long to message you back.  I do want to talk to you, but I’m in self-preservation mode. Leave me a message – I do appreciate any kind words – and I’ll get back to you when I’ve managed to crawl out of this rabbit hole and ready to face the world again.

Love,

Me

Nothing warms your belly quite like mushroom risotto. It’s a dish that not only fills your belly but also warms your soul with its creamy texture and rich flavour. What’s even better is that this easy mushroom risotto is a dish that brings the whole family together, especially since it’s naturally gluten-free, catering to various dietary needs and preferences.

Instead of relying on wine or cream, my recipe opts for a combination of chicken broth and milk. This not only reduces the calorie count but also adds a subtle richness that complements the earthiness of the mushrooms beautifully.

This particular mushroom risotto recipe strikes a perfect balance between simplicity and indulgence. It doesn’t demand an excessive amount of time to prepare, yet it requires your undivided attention as it simmers on the stove. You must stand by for constant stirring (to avoid sticking) but the results are always worth it.

Here’s my recipe for easy delicious mushroom risotto you’ll love with no wine or cream! 

Easy Delicious Mushroom Risotto You’ll Love With No Wine or Cream

Ingredients:

1 1/2 cups Superfino arborio rice

900ml (store-bought carton) of no-salt-added chicken stock
(Note: I’ve used a chicken bouillon mixed with boiling water when I don’t have stock on hand)

6 large Portobello mushrooms – or a dozen cremini mushrooms, chopped

1 white onion, chopped

3/4 skim milk (I use almond or cashew milk too)

1/2 cup shredded Parmigiano-Reggiano

2 tbsp extra-virgin olive oil or butter

1 tsp each salt and black pepper

1/4 chopped Italian parsley

Method

  1. In a large pot, add 1 tbsp of olive oil or butter.
  2. Once heated for a minute, add risotto and fry for 1-2 minutes. 
  3. Add chicken stock, stirring.
  4. In a separate pan, fry onions and mushrooms in 1 tbsp olive oil until soft. 
  5. Add milk, cooking on low heat.
  6. Keep stirring risotto while cooking so it doesn’t stick. 
  7. Once the liquid is almost gone, add the mushroom mix to risotto.  Keep stirring.
  8. Add salt, pepper and parmesan cheese.
  9. Simmer and stir until ready, adding parsley near the very end.

Bon Appetit!

Easy Mushroom Risotto

 

Easy Mushroom Risotto | amotherworld.com

 

Yield: 4 servings

Easy Delicious Mushroom Risotto You'll Love With No Wine or Cream

Easy Mushroom Risotto

Nothing warms your belly quite like mushroom risotto. It's a dish that not only fills your belly but also warms your soul with its creamy texture and rich flavour. What's even better is that this easy mushroom risotto is a dish that brings the whole family together, especially since it's naturally gluten-free, catering to various dietary needs and preferences.

Prep Time 10 minutes
Cook Time 20 minutes
Total Time 30 minutes

Ingredients

  • 1 1/2 cups Superfino Arborio rice
  • 900ml (store-bought carton) of no-salt-added chicken stock
  • (Note: I've used a chicken bouillon mixed with boiling water when I don't have stock on hand)
  • 6 large Portobello mushrooms – or a dozen cremini mushrooms, chopped
  • 1 white onion, chopped
  • 3/4 skim milk (I use almond or cashew milk too)
  • 1/2 cup shredded Parmigiano-Reggiano
  • 2 tbsp extra-virgin olive oil or butter
  • 1 tsp each salt and black pepper
  • 1/4 chopped Italian parsley

Instructions

  1. In a large pot, add 1 tbsp of olive oil or butter. 
  2. Once heated for a minute, add risotto and fry for 1-2 minutes.  Add chicken stock, stirring.

    In a separate pan, fry onions and mushrooms in 1 tbsp olive oil until soft. 
  3. Add milk, cooking on low heat.

    Keep stirring risotto while cooking so it doesn’t stick. 
  4. Once the liquid is almost gone, add the mushroom mix to risotto.  Keep stirring.
  5. Add salt, pepper and parmesan cheese. Simmer and stir until ready, adding parsley near the very end.

It already feels like a distant memory but the Toronto International Film Festival wrapped up a few days ago. I was able to do see a few films, and attend a few events. No late-night parties because frankly, I’m too old for that! Here’s a recap of my TIFF 2018 highlights.

Bask-It-Style Gift Lounge

Bask-It-Style held its 10th TIFF gifting lounge in a gorgeous penthouse in the Thompson Hotel. Bask-It-Style takes celebrity gifting to a new level by hand delivering VIP gift bags to the hotels where the stars are staying during TIFF. Past participating celebrities have included: Matt Damon, Jennifer Garner, Julianne Moore, Naomi Watts, Colin Farrell, John Legend, Sir Elton John, Rachel McAdams, Pierce Brosnan, Blake Lively to name a few.

Photo Kennedy Pollard Ryan Emberley Photography
Photo Kennedy Pollard Ryan Emberley Photography
Photo Kennedy Pollard Ryan Emberley Photography
Photo Kennedy Pollard Ryan Emberley Photography

TURO displayed a stunning 1981 Delorean DMC-12 to promote its Airbnb for car rental service. Stars in town for TIFF2018 received a $500 voucher for their TURO service. Guests also received a $100 credit for Creeds Dry Cleaning, one of six jewellery styles from Anne-Marie Channon.

House of Hayla’s founder, Hayla was on site to showcase their new HOH Monochromatic Heels Monochrome Collection (retail value $140) The 4-inch heels come in a variety of single-tone colours and designed with comfort in mind.

Carried in Sephora, Biossance is a natural skincare brand containing squalene oil, which is in our skin’s own natural moisture which declines over time. It is also found in a variety of plants; Biossance contains squalene oil that is 100% plant based from renewable sugarcane. I can’t wait to try the Squalane Peptide Eye Gel, Squalane Vitamin C Rose Oil and Squalane Phyto-Retinol Serum. I can’t wait to try these products!

Photo Kennedy Pollard Ryan Emberley Photography

For book lovers, the reading room featured an appearance by author Hannah Mary McKinnon who was signing her new book, the Neighbours, published by MIRA. The story focuses on an intense domestic drama involving Abby and her husband, Nate. Twenty years earlier, Abby was responsible for a car crash that killed her brother. Nate also harbours a secret related to the car crash. When Abby’s former lover and his family move next door, things start to unravel.

DK Publishing was also on-site displaying their new and noteworthy fall titles, including Astrology by Carole Taylor. Ripley Publishing also showcased its fall titles as well as the latest best-selling Ripley’s Believe It Or Not! Series.

TIFF Bask-It-Style DK Canada

Films

Can You Ever Forgive Me? is an upcoming biographical comedy-drama film directed by Marielle Heller and written by Nicole Holofcener and Jeff Whitty, based on Lee Israel’s memoir of the same name and starring Melissa McCarthy and Richard E. Grant. There is already some Oscar buzz surrounding McCarthy’s performance.

Green Book stars Mahershala Ali and Viggo Mortensen in this engrossing story of a working-class Italian-American bouncer who takes a job chauffeuring an African American classical pianist across the American South in the 1960s. The film won the People’s Choice Award at TIFF as a fan fave!

In Hold the Dark, retired naturalist and wolf expert Russell Core (Jeffrey Wright) journeys to the edge of civilization in northern Alaska at the pleading of Medora Slone (Riley Keough), a young mother whose son was killed by a pack of wolves. When Medora’s husband Vernon (Alexander Skarsgård) returns home from the Iraq War, the news of his child’s death ignites a violent chain of events.

TIFF 2018 Hold the Dark screening

Nespresso Talents

I attended a Nespresso Talents breakfast to celebrate the winners of the Nespresso Talents contest. Now in its third year, this unique competition empowers filmmakers to tell a story through the format of vertical video. This year’s theme “The Difference She Makes” had filmmakers create inspiring stories of women who make a difference. The winners were on hand to showcase their films, and chat in a panel discussion led by Sangita Patel, reporter for ET Canada, and Maxine Bailey, the Vice-President of Advancement for TIFF.

The winning short film was “Mina” by Sara Ben-Saud, and the runners-up were “SOS Poutine” by Meriem Dehbi Talbot and “If only you knew” by Moaz Tasabehji.

 

Nespresso Talents Breakfast Thompson Hotel Toronto

Nespresso Talents breakfast

Nespresso Talents panel

Nespresso Talents Breakfast Maria

Nespresso Talents Breakfast Maria and Loukia
With Loukia Zigoumis @MrsLouLou

TIFF Elgin Winter Garden Theatre

Until next year!

Move over, helicopter parents – there is a new group of parents that are taking over, and not in a good way.

In the last few weeks, you may have heard the term “Lawnmower Parent” which has gained steam after anonymous middle school teacher shared a story with a “lawnmower dad”. The unnamed teacher shared her story of being called down to the main office in the middle of her planning period to pick up an item the teenager forgot. “Thinking it was something like an inhaler or money for dinner, I was happy to go retrieve it.”  

The teacher was shocked to find that a father went out of his way to deliver an insulated water bottle for his teenage daughter. The father had texted his daughter back that she could use the water fountain, but the teen “had to have it out of the bottle.”

The teacher was so floored that she felt she needed to write a post about parenting today, and lawnmower parents.

Exactly what are lawn mower parents?

“Lawnmower parents go to whatever lengths necessary to prevent their child from having to face adversity, struggle, or failure. Instead of preparing children for challenges, they mow obstacles down so kids won’t experience them in the first place,” the teacher wrote.

"In raising children who have experienced minimal struggle, we are not creating a happier generation of kids. We are…

Posted by WeAreTeachers on Thursday, August 30, 2018

 

Lawnmower parents will do things for their children, even though their children are old enough to handle things on their own… for example, forgetting their homework, lunch, or water bottle at home and expecting their parents to drop everything to bring it to them. Or asking their mother or father to contact the teacher and ask for an extension on an assignment rather than the student asking themselves.

“In raising children who have experienced minimal struggle, we are not creating a happier generation of kids. We are creating a generation that has no what idea what to do when they actually encounter struggle. A generation who panics or shuts down at the mere idea of failure. A generation for whom failure is far too painful, leaving them with coping mechanisms like addiction, blame, and internalization.”

This new-ish term reminds me of the term “bulldozer” style of parenting introduced a few years ago. The Bulldozer parent will forge ahead before their child, removing all obstacles, ensuring success at every turn. While well-intentioned and meant to “protect” the child from short-term harm,  a bulldozer style of parenting ultimately results in a psychologically fragile child, fearful and avoiding failure, with never-learned coping strategies and poor resilience.

What do you think – do you agree with this anonymous teacher? Or do you think she’s exaggerating?