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Parents who hate packing kids’ lunches, raise your hands!

School lunches for kids isn’t as easy as it used to be when we were kids… peanut butter and jelly sandwiches were a main staple for many of my peers growing up.

But nowadays, there are allergies to consider, and a slew of picky eaters among our little ones. How can we, as parents, ensure our children are eating healthy meals and snacks, and enough of it, during school?

We just do it. Moms spend mornings cutting out cute little shapes for their unadventurous child’s toast, another mom sneaks in carrots and zucchini in the banana chocolate chip loaf she made from scratch.

Sometimes, parents decide to also pack a little treat, either fruit gummy snacks, or chocolate chip cookies. Healthy meals plus a treat didn’t hurt anyone.

You’d never think your school would be involved in dictating what your child is and isn’t allowed to bring into the school – other than foods containing serious allergens, like peanuts and tree nuts.

But parents in Durham say schools are policing the food kids bring into school, telling students they aren’t allowed eat snacks that are deemed unhealthy. Some kids have had their entire lunches withheld and sent home!

Is this acceptable? No!

One mom says her son in junior kindergarten was not allowed to eat banana bread for his morning snack because it contained chocolate chips. Elaina Daoust of Whitby says she was “infuriated” when he was instructed to eat grapes out of his lunch instead.

“He came home with a chart (listing healthy snack ideas) and told me he and the teacher talked about it and healthy choices. She also sent a note to me. I was really, really, really mad for several reasons,” Daoust told the Toronto Star.

Her son is a picky eater, and that she bought the snack-size banana bread because many teachers discourage home-baked treats, and these were labelled as being nut-free and safe for school.

“It’s not like he had chips or a chocolate bar,” Daoust says, noting that she has sent the banana bread to her children’s new school this year with no issues so far.

And if he did have chips or a chocolate bar? That’s up to the parents to decide!

If I know that my kid has had a full breakfast of eggs, toast, and fruit, and plan on a healthy dinner, don’t we as parents get to choose if our kids can have a snack during school?

Healthy eating is now a large part of Ontario’s health and physical education curriculum with student learning about the food groups in Canada’s Food Guide – which is also a topic for debate!

How healthy is the Canada Food Guide? The guide is outdated and full of misinformation, in my humble opinion. The guide advises adults to eat six to eight servings of grain products a day, and to limit saturated fat, which occurs naturally in animal products such as eggs, dairy and meat as well as in some vegetable oils like coconut and palm oils.

It also tells Canadians to trim visible fat from meat, limit butter, and cook without or with little added fat. It also advises consuming only two to three tablespoons of unsaturated fat — often described as the “good” fat that is found in plant-based foods and oils — daily.

The fixation on carbohydrates and grain products, and the lack of “good” fat is what is driving obesity and related medical conditions. For decades, governments and scientists in the U.S. and Canada have warned of the harmful effects of saturated fat on the heart and cardiovascular system, urging consumers to shun butter, eggs and red meat. But recent research shows that these foods contain healthy saturated fats.

The “war” against saturated fat was based on bad science. It was never really proven that it caused any harm. In fact, recent studies suggest that there is no association at all between saturated fat and cardiovascular disease.

After the Toronto Star contacted the Durham Catholic District School Board, it’s evident that these food policing decisions are not recommended by the board.

“There is nowhere in our policy or procedures that says our staff is allowed to take food away from a student,” says James MacKinnon, a teaching and learning consultant with the DCDSB.

The school board does not direct teachers or lunch assistants to monitor whether the food a student brings is healthy. Durham District School Board officials declined an interview, however Superintendent Luigia Ayotte issued this statement:

“We understand there may have been some issues with regard to certain foods students bring for snacks and lunches, but food preferences and choice remain with students and parents unless they pose an adverse allergic danger to other students.”

Common examples of food discouraged in their children’s classrooms include:

Goldfish crackers, Bear Paws cookies, granola bars, string cheese, Jello, juice boxes, pudding cups, gummy fruit snacks, raisins, Animal Crackers, chocolate milk and Sun Chips.

by Kathy Buckworth

The Japanese have introduced a technological “advance” with the invention of the Lunchbox Communicator, a modified “Bento Box” which includes a video camera and screen, embedded in the box’s lid. The idea here is that the child can watch Mom preparing his/her lunch, just before digging in, and Mom can in return watch Junior eating it.  As riveting as video footage of lunch making can be – quite surprised there isn’t a reality show called “Extreme Lunch Boxes” – and as appealing as it is to watch a child eat lunch, it begs the question: Why? Why? Why?

Making the decision as to what you will eat out of your school lunch is a major part of learning and growing as a child. Do you go for the apple Mom packed, or try to trade it for your best friend’s cupcake? Is that homemade chocolate chip cookie really worth two fruit roll ups? It’s sort of like a food version of “Let’s Make a Deal”, and the bartering and bargaining learned here can build a foundation for negotiating skills most kids will require later on in life (particularly if they become parents themselves).  And with most schools now having supervisors watching for kids throwing out healthy food, trying to sneak it into a garbage can is a risky option compared to the good old trade.

But with every move being monitored by the video camera’s watchful eye, these poor children will likely be forced to eat what their Mama gave ‘em…and where’s the fun in that?

On the other side of the lens, I’m not sure why there’s thinking that kids would want to watch their parents prepare their lunches.  Kids don’t want to watch their mothers do anything; particularly something as pedestrian as providing them with a basic life necessity. Do the manufacturers really think that the kids will appreciate the effort that Mom (or Dad) has put into the preparation of this meal? If anything, they’re more likely to be turned off when they realize that there are “raw” ingredients that go into making a sandwich, salad, or cooked entrée.  “There’s cheese in my macaroni? I never knew that. You know I hate cheese Mom.” No, I think this new innovation has disaster written all over it. I don’t know about you, but watching my children eat breakfast and dinner at home is enough “food bonding” time for me. Also, I’m not entirely convinced my children wouldn’t capture an inappropriate body part on the camera, just for my viewing pleasure.

I mean, what’s next? Do we want to have two way video cameras on our children for other moments during their school day?  Not sure I need to see how uncoordinated they are at gym, or that the pencil they use for homework is also an effective scratching implement for places that scratching shouldn’t be done in public.  Let’s leave some things in the realm of the unknown, and unwatched, shall we?

Kathy BuckworthKathy Buckworth is an award winning humour writer, and feature writer for Sympatico.ca in their parenting, travel, and auto sites  Visit www.kathybuckworth.com and follow Kathy on Twitter at www.twitter.com/kathybuckworth