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Having my boys home during the summer is wonderful yet chaotic. When they get along, they are best friends and brothers with so much love. But when they argue, they get nasty. They will bicker, taunt one another and then they start to get physical. How many time outs and fight break-ups have you had to endure this past summer?

Well the back to school countdown is on! The kids are going back to school, baby! I’m going to take a deep breath as I send them off on their first day of school. And then…
When the kids are back in school, I’m going to…

Sit and enjoy the silence. I’ve been hearing the noises of whining, complaining, Minecraft music, Geometry Dash techno/electronic music all summer long. And then when it gets too quiet…

Dance around the house with MY music blasted. I’ve had to listen to my kids’ tween Disney XD shows and Everything Is Awesome much more than usual, I thought my head would explode.

Enjoy a full cup of coffee without interruption.

Lay on the couch all by myself.

Take the longest bath ever.

Get my hair done! I haven’t had a hair cut in months.

Get a proper manicure and pedicure. My toes look like claws and my cuticles have taken over half of my toe nail. Not a pretty sight.

Haul my ass back to the gym. My body is soft and lumpy, need to tone up!

Make an appointment for a massage. That gift certificate I got for my birthday last year is still sitting on my dresser. About time I use it.

Print some photos. I have thousands upon thousands of photos that need to be uploaded, organized and printed.

Meet up with friends for coffee or lunch.

Go shopping! I need some fall clothing and I haven’t had a chance to shop for myself.

Take a long leisurely stroll in my fave neighbourhoods. I haven’t been able to window shop along Queen West, Bloor or Yorkville without being yanked away by a cute yet strong little hand.

Catch up on shows like True Detective and Ray Donovan during the day because the characters can cuss and swear and I don’t have to worry about keeping my finger on the mute button….

while eating a pint of coconut ice cream. And I won’t have to share.

Finally, I’m going to have enough time to recoup and miss my kids!

 

What, did you think I was that heartless?!

Snap back to reality and realize that work is still waiting for me, along with endless piles of laundry.

 

With all of the back-to-school shopping, paperwork and deadlines, back-to-school time can go by in a blur. One day you are sending your baby to Kindergarten; the next you blink and graduation is right around the corner.

Don’t let these precious moments slip right by. The first day of school is a fantastic time to ask your child some important questions and record his or her answers. Keep the first day of school answers in a notebook or make scrapbook pages out of them. When they are all grown off and ready to leave the nest, you’ll love looking back and remembering. Here are 25 great question ideas to get you started!

25 Interview Questions to Ask Your Child on the First Day of School

1. What is your name? (Have them write it and watch their handwriting change throughout the years.)
2. How big are you? (Height and weight)
3. What grade are you going into?
4. What is your teacher’s name?
5. What is your favorite subject?
6. What is your least favorite subject?
7. Who are your best friends?
8. What are your favorite things to do with your friends?
9. What are you really good at?
10. What do you need more practice at?
11. What do you want to be when you grow up?
12. What is your favorite color?
13. What is your favorite book?
14. What is your favorite food?
15. What is your favorite movie?
16. What is your favorite T.V. show?
17. What is your favorite song?
18. What are you most looking forward to this year?
19. What is something you want to learn more about this year?
20. What is the best part about being in _____ grade?
21. What is the worst part about being in _____ grade?
22. What special talents and abilities do you have
23. What makes you happy?
24. What makes you sad?
25. What else should we know about you?

 

Download a free printable page here, ready for filling out!

 

How was your child’s first day of school?

 

25 Interview Questions to Ask your Child on the First Day of School on amotherworld

by Dee Brun aka CocktailDeeva

“Let the Games Begin!”  “Letʼs get ready to RUMBLE!!!” or maybe “and in this corner…”  I don’t know! And it’s killing me!

No, I am not talking about some huge sporting event, but in my life this is a HUGE event and it has me worried and a wee bit scared. Have not felt this way since my eldest daughter’s first day of school, and here I am 10 years later having to go through it all again.

Only this time I donʼt have the control…and I NEED the control! Donʼt we all? Is this not why we become parents, to have ULTIMATE CONTROL and POWER?  Ok…I am exaggerating but really just a little.

My fabulous 14 year old daughter is starting HIGH SCHOOL in mere weeks and I am losing my shit…literally!

It has me a weee bit stressed out. All the logistics aside, bus pass, student I.D. card, uniform…and who knows what else. What about the fact that she has to take the city bus every day? Itʼs a CITY BUS! With strangers on it, and weirdos, kidnappers and sex offenders OH MY!

See this is where my mind goes, I canʼt help it. I have tried! I am not a helicopter parent, I let her have some freedoms, but my brain just pictures the absolute worst when she sets off on a new adventure. I donʼt know how to shut it off… Then after she survives all the “evil” goings on on the bus…she actually makes it to HIGH SCHOOL! Where lurking in the halls are sex starved pre-pubes-ant boys, alcohol, drugs, sex-ting, rainbow parties, pill parties.  OH MY! This is right about the time my head physically explodes off my shoulders.

How in the hell do I protect her from all of this? To all those people who say “You canʼt raise your kids in a Bubble!”, right about now is when I start searching eBay for said Bubble! I am really at a loss on this one. I am putting on the brave “She will be fine” face, but deep down , in places you donʼt talk about at parties…I AM FREAKING OUT! Itʼs not that I donʼt trust my daughter I do, I truly feel she will make good choices. I just donʼt trust everyone else. I know this is all me and that I have to let go and calm down and just stop being so CRAZY…I know all these things and tell myself this everyday, but it does nothing.

So to sum up a whole lot of, well nothing…I am just going to have to tackle this new adventure one day at a time, like a crazed control freak addict in re-hab. I am so not good with the whole not knowing what will happen thing, but will go with the flow so my daughter can suck every last ounce of enjoyment (and education) out of her High School experience. If any of you have been through this I would love your insight…and stay tuned for THE ADVENTURES OF A MOM WITH A DAUGHTER IN HIGH SCHOOL! Hmmm that is a really lame title…will have to work on that one.

Dee Brun aka Cocktail Deeva is the author of the stirring book Libations of Life, A Girls Guide to Life One Cocktail at a Time. She has combined imaginative cocktails with witty accounts of dating, carousing, dieting and simply put, the ups and downs of Life. Visit her website: www.cocktaildeeva.com