Tag

internet access

Browsing

By Maria Lianos

The other day, I wrote a post about suffering internet withdrawal while on vacation.

Upon my return, I read this article: “Hooked on Gadgets, and Paying a Mental Price”

As soon as I started reading, it hit me:  “that’s me.”

“Scientists say juggling e-mail, phone calls and other incoming information can change how people think and behave. They say our ability to focus is being undermined by bursts of information…

While many people say multitasking makes them more productive, research shows otherwise. Heavy multitaskers actually have more trouble focusing and shutting out irrelevant information, scientists say, and they experience more stress.”

I consider myself to be a pretty good multitasker.  Most moms are… they have to be.  We can make dinner, Tweet, talk on the phone and deal with our kids all at the same time.

At times under stress, I am more productive.  Even though the stress may be apparent (when I’m heard yelling, “Go to your room, NOW!!!” and when noon can’t come soon enough), I thrive on it. 

But then there are those days when I am completely overwhelmed by everything that needs to be done.  The endless list of things-to-do stares me in the face.  Not knowing where to begin, the multitasking expert I usually am becomes counter-productive and I end up doing nothing at all.

Blogging, Facebook, Twitter, online forums… do you often feel overwhelmed trying to stay on top of everything?  Do you feel like if you’re away for a few days with no internet access, you’d miss something?

Do you think that multitasking is making you counter-productive and causing you more harm than good?

I’d love to hear your thoughts!

by Maria Lianos

Being away for two weeks with limited internet access has been an eye opener.

I didn’t realize how much I relied on the internet for news, interaction, entertainment…almost too much I will honestly admit.

It took me a few days to start relaxing. I felt like an addict coming off a drug. Suffering from internet withdrawal, I was itching to find internet access. When I finally snuck away to a Starbucks in the next town, I sighed with huge relief.

At last, I could check on what was going on in my online world. But I realized, I didn’t miss anything. Why did I think I would miss something so important and crucial, more important than what I was experiencing in the present moment?

It took a few days for me to learn to but finally, I was able to embrace being off-line and sincerely enjoy simple things that I haven’t done in a long time, like:

  • Start and actually finish a good book.
  • Read trashy magazines.
  • Play chess and solitaire.
  • Fall asleep in a riding car.
  • Go for a walk outdoors.
  • Kick around a soccer ball.
  • Build a sand castle.
  • Watch TV without tweeting.
  • Take an afternoon nap.
  • Chase seagulls.
  • Hang laundry outdoors.
  • Swim in the ocean.
  • Watch dolphins swim.
  • Play hopscotch.

It felt so good to do these things… little things that add to up to make a vacation.  It sounds such a simple concept but for someone who always feels the need to constantly be doing something, it was a good lesson learned. Simply turn off all distractions and focus on just having some fun.

I was thankful for coming to realize this during my vacation and even more thankful were my kids.