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December is a crazy month.  Between Christmas parties and other holidays, visiting Santa and going to Santa Claus parades to Christmas shopping, to decorating the house, it can be overwhelming.

Bah-humbug you say?  Is it even possible to have a stress-free Christmas?

Why yes it is!

Here are some tips for you to enjoy a stress-free Christmas!

How to Have a Stress-Free Christmas

How to Have a Stress Free Christmas

1.  Admit it, you’re not Martha Stewart and stop trying to be like Giada De Laurentis.  It ain’t gonna happen.  You’re more likely to resemble a Rachel Ray and you’re okay with that.  That means a 30-minute meal, or a potluck. Throw a stuffed Butterball turkey in the oven and you’re ready to go.  Ask everyone to bring a side dish.  Who cares who gets offended?  You’re overtired and overworked – you deserve a break!

2.   Rather than slave away in the kitchen baking ten different treats, narrow it down to one or two sweets.  Give the kids the choice – either shortbread or sugar cookies. Simple.  Too bad, kids!  They’ll get over it once you tell them you’ll let them decorate the cookies.  On one condition – you’ll set it up but they have to clean the mess.  Another idea? Skip the gingerbread house from scratch – buy it from the box and let the kids go nuts.

3.   Do your shopping online early. You’re already computer savvy and spending enough time on Twitter wasting precious time.  Make yourself useful and get your butt onto some popular shopping sites and online stores and avoid the line-ups.  Just be sure that shipping and/or customs and insurance won’t cost more than the gift itself!

4.   Avoid the malls on the weekend.  If you work, go on your lunch break.  Amazing what you can accomplish in an hour.  Also try very first thing in the morning before the malls get packed and you need to take valium.christmas stress, how to have a stress free christmas, christmas stress tips, holiday stress tips

5. Get creative with your gifts. Rather than the boring gift card, buy someone a subscription to a magazine, a certificate to the spa or a gym membership… although the latter may give out the wrong idea. Hey you need to get into shape and lose that muffin top!”  But it’s all about being healthy, right?

6.  No time to wrap?  Easy! Visit the dollar store and buy a bunch of bags. Plop the gift inside and save hours of wrapping time – and paper! If you don’t care about pretty bags and wrap, buy a reusable bag from your favourite store – the gift that keeps giving!

7.  Get your kids to decorate the tree.  Who cares if the top half is empty?  It’ll have its own charm.

8.   Do a Kris Kringle. Have a big family?  Then stop the $10 gifts for every aunt and cousin on your never-ending list.  Instead, at Thanksgiving when the whole family is together, do a Kris Kringle draw.  Set a budget of $50 or $100 for just one gift.  If there are too many kids in the family, let the kids have their own separate Kris Kringle.

9.  Learn to say NO.  Invited to a dozen Christmas parties?  You can’t be in two places at once.  No matter how much you think you’ll miss, you won’t.  They may not miss you either.  Be picky and only attend the “must-go” events where you know you must-be seen.

Try some of these tricks and you’ll notice that your heart will grow two sizes. If all else fails, crack open that Egg Nog and spike it good!

What is your tip for a stress-free Christmas?

by Dee Brun

Someone told me the other day how my shopping days were left until Christmas and I nearly fell over.  How did this happen? Where was I?

Then I realized that before I actually make it to Christmas I have to get through Halloween and Thanksgiving!   How many days until they are here?

I hate when holiday hell just sneaks up on you like that. I need time to get my brain ready long before I can
think of actually making plans and shopping for the season. On top of it all, this year we are moving right in the middle of everything. Can you say mental break down?

So I have decided I need to put a few things into perspective when it comes to this years Holiday Festivities…

1) Lower Your Expectations.  Not everything will be perfect, not everyone will be happy, the turkey may be a little dry and I canʼt control ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING!  But we all will be together, we have food to eat and a roof over our heads (and mommy will always have a full bottle of Vodka in the cupboard).

2) Ask For Help.  I have always been of the mind that “If you want something done right you have to do it yourself.” Since having baby #4 and deciding to move, I am now of the mind “Who cares if itʼs right, let someone else do it.” Havenʼt you heard? Pot-Luck is making a come back. It is now very chic to ask your guest to bring a yummy dish to the party…and those who bring booze are welcome to spend the night.

3) Avoid alcohol. It can increase anxiety symptoms.  HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! We all know this will never happen..NEXT…

4) Slow Down.  Unless Aunt Rubyʼs antique manger set is on fire, there is no rush. Leave lots of time in between parties and events so you can enjoy the process. I am really going to try and enjoy every little moment this season…even if it kills me!

5) GIVE.  No matter how simple, giving something you have to someone who needs, will always make you feel better. There is truly no greater gift…Unless the someone who has is giving you (the someone who needs) a pair of Jimmy Choo crushed patent platform caged sandals….

Pick Your Holiday Punch

1 750-ml bottle Hpnotiq liqueur
1 750-ml bottle Vodka
1 can frozen lemonade
3 Fresh oranges for garnish
2 liters club soda

Combine Hpnotiq,vodka, lemonade in a large pitcher and leave in fridge until just before guests arrive. Serve in a martini glass with or without ice. Top with a splash of soda and Garnish with a thin orange wheel. You can also rim the glass with powdered icing sugar for a fab holiday look.

Cheers!

 

Dee Brun is the author of the stirring book Libations of Life, A Girls Guide to Life One Cocktail at a Time and Cocktailista for The Steven & Chris Show on CBC.  Follow her on Twitter.