by Dee Brun

Someone told me the other day how my shopping days were left until Christmas and I nearly fell over.  How did this happen? Where was I?

Then I realized that before I actually make it to Christmas I have to get through Halloween and Thanksgiving!   How many days until they are here?

I hate when holiday hell just sneaks up on you like that. I need time to get my brain ready long before I can
think of actually making plans and shopping for the season. On top of it all, this year we are moving right in the middle of everything. Can you say mental break down?

So I have decided I need to put a few things into perspective when it comes to this years Holiday Festivities…

1) Lower Your Expectations.  Not everything will be perfect, not everyone will be happy, the turkey may be a little dry and I canʼt control ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING!  But we all will be together, we have food to eat and a roof over our heads (and mommy will always have a full bottle of Vodka in the cupboard).

2) Ask For Help.  I have always been of the mind that “If you want something done right you have to do it yourself.” Since having baby #4 and deciding to move, I am now of the mind “Who cares if itʼs right, let someone else do it.” Havenʼt you heard? Pot-Luck is making a come back. It is now very chic to ask your guest to bring a yummy dish to the party…and those who bring booze are welcome to spend the night.

3) Avoid alcohol. It can increase anxiety symptoms.  HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! We all know this will never happen..NEXT…

4) Slow Down.  Unless Aunt Rubyʼs antique manger set is on fire, there is no rush. Leave lots of time in between parties and events so you can enjoy the process. I am really going to try and enjoy every little moment this season…even if it kills me!

5) GIVE.  No matter how simple, giving something you have to someone who needs, will always make you feel better. There is truly no greater gift…Unless the someone who has is giving you (the someone who needs) a pair of Jimmy Choo crushed patent platform caged sandals….

Pick Your Holiday Punch

1 750-ml bottle Hpnotiq liqueur
1 750-ml bottle Vodka
1 can frozen lemonade
3 Fresh oranges for garnish
2 liters club soda

Combine Hpnotiq,vodka, lemonade in a large pitcher and leave in fridge until just before guests arrive. Serve in a martini glass with or without ice. Top with a splash of soda and Garnish with a thin orange wheel. You can also rim the glass with powdered icing sugar for a fab holiday look.

Cheers!

Dee Brun is the author of the stirring book Libations of Life, A Girls Guide to Life One Cocktail at a Time and Cocktailista for The Steven & Chris Show on CBC.  Follow her on Twitter.