by Erica Chapman
Spring is upon us and so is warmer weather, flirty skirts and open-toed shows.
It’s also time for romance! This is the time for a ‘spring fling’ with your partner or if you’re not attached, with a new beau!
After the excitement of the cute man asking us out or hubby wanting a date night, the terrifying part begins – what to wear?
Like most women, I have a difficult time trying to figure out what to wear. Should I wear jeans, or be classy and wear a dress, how about a cute tank, what do I wear for earrings, what sort of bag do I carry, what…. STOP! Relax and breeeathe and read my 5 tips on what to wear on a date:
Shoes:
First off, start with the shoes. Most women leave them to the end, but then you end up changing the entire outfit! So, start with the shoes. Actually, first you should begin with calling your closest mate for help, and then you should head to the shoes.
Do not by any means wear flats; they make you look short and stalky, wear something with a heel. A great kitten heel is always fun and flirty but keep the shoe simple. If a stiletto heel is too much for you, try something sophisticated yet edgy. Don’t worry too much though, he won’t be staring at the shoe all night.
Bottom:
If you’ve got great legs, show them off by wearing a great dress or skirt. Make sure that it’s not longer than your knee and that you’ve got freshly shaven legs! If you want to hide your legs, a great pair of dark denim jeans or flared evening trousers works and looks flirty. Try not to wear a maxi dress or skirt, men don’t understand them, and he also needs a sneak peek.
Top:
If you’ve chosen a dress disregard this section but if you’ve chosen jeans or a skirt, go for a slight V-neck on a first date; it’s casual and can be played up. If you like color or floral, wear something with a little vibrancy but be careful that you don’t have to much going on around your face. Also don’t wear florescent anything, shirt included. If it’s chilly, add a cardigan or a biker jacket. Keep the shirt simple and light, free flowing and neutral.
Handbag/Purse
I understand that you’re a busy woman and need everything including your lunch in your bag, but don’t forget that this is a date. Keep your purse or handbag simple and light; a great little clutch is fun. If your outfit is plain and easy, go with a loud vibrant clutch but anything with too much detail is too distracting. You’re the center of attention, not the Prada.
Jewelry
Oscars and a first date aren’t in the same category so don’t drown yourself in millions of dollars of diamonds. Keep it fresh and simple. Massive hoop earrings are a no-no and same with too many bangles. Don’t do so much bling! Personally, I wear one piece and keep it simple, the rest stays plain.
I hope this helps! Remember that if this is your first date, don’t go over the top. If you’re attached, be comfortable. Your shoes should be easy to walk in, your bag shouldn’t be a burden and your jewelry shouldn’t cost more then the dinner bill. Have fun and remember – your best accessory is your smile!
Erica Champan stumbled upon her love for fashion while scrolling tirelessly through Tumblr. She loves putting on a vibrant outfit and getting stares and awkward glances on the street of her small town. Fashion isn’t just about putting clothes on and hoping for the best, it’s a lifestyle. She hopes to work for Vogue and be photographed while strolling the streets of Manhattan.
