“Hey, how’s your sex life?” Can you imagine that question being as normal as saying “how are you?” While we don’t openly discuss sex with our family and friends – unless you are extremely open about sexuality – it’s good to at least discuss it with your partner.


If you’re in a relationship or married, here are the basic, fundamental three rules of sex that you should follow:

The Three Rules of Sex

Rule #1: Protect yourself

This is critical.  When it comes to your body, you make the decisions, and you have the power to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and STIs. Don’t think you need to protect yourself? Think again! 65 per cent of single men and 72 per cent of single women surveyed by Trojan did not use a condom the last time they had intercourse.

So, don’t rely on others to purchase condoms. While it’s typically seen as the ‘man’s job,’ it’s important to be prepared, no matter your gender. Not sure what to pick up in the aisle? The new XOXO™ condoms by the maker of Trojan™ are designed with women in mind. With Softouch thin latex and aloe-infused lubricant, it’s the exciting and reliable approach to protection. Plus, the discreet packaging and mini-travel pack make it easy to display on your table or toss in your purse to go.

Rule #2: Communicate your needs

There’s no such thing as a mind-reader, as we all know. If you don’t discuss your likes and dislikes with your partner, they are never going to know what you like between the sheets. If he can’t find “the spot”, don’t be shy to guide him!

Consider a vibrator such as the new Trojan Power Wand Vibrations Massager, a compact and easily portable version of the world’s number one vibrator. With three variable speeds and a soft silicone tip to stimulate a broad area, it doesn’t disappoint.

The Three Rules of Sex

Rule #3: Be adventurous

Want to add a little adventure into your love life, but not sure how? There are several ways to add some adventure to your sex life… role playing, sex toys, watching porn together, S&M… if that’s a little too adventurous for you, you can start off tame with a lubricant. Lube is an amazing way to stimulate your partner and have a more pleasurable experience.

Trojan™ Chain Reaction™ Lubricant has been developed for those that want to keep sex fresh and exciting. This revolutionary lubricant allows you to reach new heights of pleasure with the exciting twists and turns of a chain reaction. How does it work? The lubricant includes a special blend of intensifiers that release a variety of sensations during use for a unique experience every time!

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Everyone should be following these fundamental three rules of sex. What are your rules?


Disclosure: I’m a Church & Dwight ambassador and receive perks in the form of product and compensation. As always, the opinions expressed herein are my own.


Maria Lianos-Carbone is the author of “Oh Baby! A Mom’s Self-Care Survival Guide for the First Year”, and publisher of amotherworld.com, a leading lifestyle blog for women.

1 Comment

  1. I keep seeing ads for the Trojan XOXO condoms (watching late night reality TV) and must admit, I love the packaging. The Chain Reaction lube sounds really interesting!

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