Kids birthday parties sure seem to have become quite the “thing”. Planning a kid’s birthday party is like planning a mini-wedding. When did it become so complicated and expensive?
I’ve gone to parties where the parents are flustered but suck it up and drop well over $1,000 on the whole event. It’s quite impressive but who are we trying to please? The parents of the children, or the whiny child who probably will grow up being completely unappreciative because they’ve been given everything?
From clowns to face-painters, trampoline parties to indoor playgrounds… from princess themed to pirates… one mom will attempt to outdo the next in hosting these birthday extravaganza-paloozas! And that’s not even the gifts!
Asking your guests to purchase a gift for a young child from gift list seems a little over the top. I mean, I can understand a wedding or a baby shower so that the new bride or mom-to-be isn’t stuck with 12 coffee makers and 15 baby blankets. For a child?
A woman was left outraged after her brother presented her with a birthday list for her two-year-old niece, AND demanded to know how much she was willing to spend on the toddler. She wrote in the now-deleted thread that both her brother and sister-in-law asked her to stick to a list of approved presents for their little girl.
An “approved” list… like a wedding registry. When did this become a thing?! Should kids have a gift registry for their birthday?
The brother had told her that if she wasn’t going to buy off the list then she didn’t need to bother buying anything! To make matters more icky, the woman who posted, named “Underthemoonlight” revealed that her children receive only a birthday card “with a tenner” for their gift (tenner is a ten-dollar bill). It appears to be quite selfish to give a gift of cash, but demand that guests purchase gifts from a curated list, and how much the guest would be spending. How rude!
“She asked me how much I was spending so she could organize what to pick out of her list from me that covered how much I would be spending,” the woman wrote, according to the Daily Mail. “I was a bit taken back. We have very minimal contact, they don’t ask about the kids and have very little interaction with us. All our children have all had tenner in the birthday card, which is fair enough.”
What do you think about having a birthday list/registry for a young child’s birthday party? Smart or silly?